Two Dads are Better than None

The adventures of two very adorable gay men trying to become fathers in a crazy ass world

"I have seen the moment of my greatness flicker,And I have seen the eternal Footman hold my coat, and snicker, And in short, I was afraid."


So after years of planning, many ups and downs and lots of money, we have arrived at the races!! Today will be our first attempt to inseminate our surrogate. I have not updated this much because we had a lot of steps to get through to even arrive at the attempts, but suffice it to say we have located an awesome surrogate, signed contracts and today she will arrive for a few days of (ahem), well you can imagine. Or maybe not.

I am not sure why everyone is so intrigued by *HOW* we will be making a baby, but they are. It is not like I ask straight people, "So when you made your son, did you give it to the old lady doggie style?" Maybe I should ask that when I get the question next time.

Anyway, it has  been a tough road to get to this point. My only hope is that we are successful.

And for the record, we are not having a baby to try and be like all the straight people. We are having a baby because we want to. After 9 years together, I would say we are pretty securely attached to each other.  Too bad so many couples jump into kids so quickly. In any event, there was never a baby more wanted than the one we are trying to make. Wish us luck and God's blessing. We are off to the races!

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We are a committed gay couple of almost 10 years who are trying to start a family of our own. This is our story.

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